Sometimes, we hold men to standards we would never expect of the people we love most like our family and friends. Think about how you approach him. Do you ask about his absence with love or with accusation, anger, and punishment?
1. Approach with love and/or humor for best results!! Everyone responds well to: "I haven't seen you in a couple days. I miss you! I want to see you!"
2. Assume the best. These two bits of advice make everything much easier all the way around with the best results.