Canoodling down at Las Vegas City Hall on our wedding day!
FAQ
Who are you and Why are you qualified to help me find a husband?
I'm a woman who married for the first time over the age of 40. Just like you, I never thought it was possible to find someone who would accept and love me as I am and as I was. When I met my husband, I was a single mom to a 6 year old son. I also weighed 30 pounds more than I do today. Because I wasn't fulfilled in my personal life other than my son, I also happened to be a workaholic.
If I can marry the perfect man for me under these circumstances, you can, too.
I dated over 100 men to find my perfect husband. In that time, I learned so much about dating and men. I know how men think and what they want. I dated all ages from early 20's to a 66 year old and all types from a Kentucky Fried Chicken employee to an investment banker to a magician on the Las Vegas Strip. I also dated lots and lots of regular guys who were graduate students, entrepreneurs, writers, doctors, casino employees and more. After many embarrassing common relationship mistakes, I suffered through the hurt and pain only to learn something profound. All of these men no matter how young or old they were or what they did for a living all want the same things from women. Once I figured out what men wanted from women, I was able to focus on the best man who exhibited the husband qualities most important to me.
You can navigate the dating world with confidence and get to your relationship goal faster if you know how. And, yes, you can get married and find the perfect husband FOR YOU at any age, at any size and in your current circumstances.
What can Find Your Hubby do for me?
Help you Find Your Husband! The Find Your Husband blog is updated regularly with useful links and current relationship issues, ideas and solutions.
Please visit the services page so I can give your dating profile a makeover --- you know you're long overdue for a makeover ;), write a kick-ass profile for you or meet you face-to-face or on Skype for a private session!
Additionally, the Official Find Your Husband Party takes place on Sunday, June 8, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. What's a Find Your Husband Party? Stay tuned for details. I'd love for you to attend! The first Find Your Husband Party in July 2013 was attended by 10 single women. Of those 10, one is now happily married and one is engaged to the man of her dreams. Several others are in serious, loving relationships.
When should I Find My Husband?
I'm here to tell you that no matter what your current circumstances are, no matter how old you are, no matter what you weigh or what you look like, the time to look for your husband is NOW.
You Are Ready Now!
There is no time like the present. If you wait years, you will regret it. Now is as good a time as any. By the very nature of meeting the man you love and who loves you, your life will take a drastic turn for the better.
Where do I Find My Husband?
Match.com and eHarmony.com provide the most serious relationship sites for dating. However, these sites are not one-size-fits-all. It will depend on who you are and what you're looking for.
If you're looking for a husband in real life, tell everyone you know (neighbors, friends, co-workers, family members and acquaintances) you are looking to meet someone special and get married. You never know who they will introduce you to! Also, make sure you're spending the majority of your time where the men are. The nail salon and the shopping mall are probably not the places to Find Your Husband. ;)
Why should I get married?
Life is better for married people. It's scientifically proven! My life is a million times better with my husband than without. My wish is for us to live very long lives so I can enjoy my time with him for as long as possible. <3
Who are you and Why are you qualified to help me find a husband?
I'm a woman who married for the first time over the age of 40. Just like you, I never thought it was possible to find someone who would accept and love me as I am and as I was. When I met my husband, I was a single mom to a 6 year old son. I also weighed 30 pounds more than I do today. Because I wasn't fulfilled in my personal life other than my son, I also happened to be a workaholic.
If I can marry the perfect man for me under these circumstances, you can, too.
I dated over 100 men to find my perfect husband. In that time, I learned so much about dating and men. I know how men think and what they want. I dated all ages from early 20's to a 66 year old and all types from a Kentucky Fried Chicken employee to an investment banker to a magician on the Las Vegas Strip. I also dated lots and lots of regular guys who were graduate students, entrepreneurs, writers, doctors, casino employees and more. After many embarrassing common relationship mistakes, I suffered through the hurt and pain only to learn something profound. All of these men no matter how young or old they were or what they did for a living all want the same things from women. Once I figured out what men wanted from women, I was able to focus on the best man who exhibited the husband qualities most important to me.
You can navigate the dating world with confidence and get to your relationship goal faster if you know how. And, yes, you can get married and find the perfect husband FOR YOU at any age, at any size and in your current circumstances.
What can Find Your Hubby do for me?
Help you Find Your Husband! The Find Your Husband blog is updated regularly with useful links and current relationship issues, ideas and solutions.
Please visit the services page so I can give your dating profile a makeover --- you know you're long overdue for a makeover ;), write a kick-ass profile for you or meet you face-to-face or on Skype for a private session!
Additionally, the Official Find Your Husband Party takes place on Sunday, June 8, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. What's a Find Your Husband Party? Stay tuned for details. I'd love for you to attend! The first Find Your Husband Party in July 2013 was attended by 10 single women. Of those 10, one is now happily married and one is engaged to the man of her dreams. Several others are in serious, loving relationships.
When should I Find My Husband?
I'm here to tell you that no matter what your current circumstances are, no matter how old you are, no matter what you weigh or what you look like, the time to look for your husband is NOW.
You Are Ready Now!
There is no time like the present. If you wait years, you will regret it. Now is as good a time as any. By the very nature of meeting the man you love and who loves you, your life will take a drastic turn for the better.
Where do I Find My Husband?
Match.com and eHarmony.com provide the most serious relationship sites for dating. However, these sites are not one-size-fits-all. It will depend on who you are and what you're looking for.
If you're looking for a husband in real life, tell everyone you know (neighbors, friends, co-workers, family members and acquaintances) you are looking to meet someone special and get married. You never know who they will introduce you to! Also, make sure you're spending the majority of your time where the men are. The nail salon and the shopping mall are probably not the places to Find Your Husband. ;)
Why should I get married?
Life is better for married people. It's scientifically proven! My life is a million times better with my husband than without. My wish is for us to live very long lives so I can enjoy my time with him for as long as possible. <3
ABOUT ME:
- My nickname is Poly. It means many because I have many interests.
- Despite my nickname, I'm a firm believer in monogamous relationships. Here is a man's perspective on monogamy.
- I was born in 1972. That makes me middle-aged. 42 and loving it.
- I’m a relationship advice guru and always have been.
- I rarely wear makeup but I love EOS lipbalm.
- I found ONE Yahoo! personals ad 12 years ago for my sister. She married the guy and still happily married today.
- My husband is a shy techie who grew up on a Navajo reservation AND an Oregon berry farm.
- I love large cities especially Los Angeles and Mexico City.
- I love to cook very, strange food. Seaweed gelatin, anyone?
- I've been all over Europe and Mexico. Have yet to discover the U.S.A. and would love to visit every state.
- I listen to ABBA, Goldfrapp, Arcade Fire, France Gall, Metronomy, Lana Del Rey, and Schubert.
- I shop for groceries daily like a European.
- I live in the Marriage Capital of the World: Las Vegas, baby!
- I speak English and Spanish and faux French.
- I can outspice anyone. I'm one of nine local ghost chili champions.
- I love the performing and visual arts.
- I'm left-handed.
- When I met my husband, I was 30 pounds heavier and he loved me then as he loves me now.
- I practice yoga. At home. :)
- Cello music makes me cry.
- My decorating tends toward mid-century modern.
- I love orchids and unfortunately, have killed more than a few.
- I'm the proud mother of an exceptional teen. He's Freshman Class President at his Magnet H.S. with straight A's!
- Coffee is my favorite food. Wine, especially Cabernet Sauvignon and Tempranillo, is my favorite drink. ;)
- I’m 5’5″. And, not naturally blonde. I wear a size 14.
- I love dancing, biking, walking, swimming, badminton and soccer as a spectator sport.
- I had a doberman (Duffy), a Great Dane (Elk), a cocker spaniel (Ginger) and a pug (Max) growing up. Dogs are love!I
- I crashed my mother's Mercedes Benz when I was 16. Yikes!
- I borrowed and paid back a small loan from the U.S. embassy in Barcelona once. Poor planning in my younger years.
- Valentine's Day and Halloween are my favorite holidays. Romance and horror, wheee!
- My husband and I got married in November 2012 after a seven year courtship. Living proof of the slow burn.
- I don't watch TV.
- I've never met a movie with a subtitle I didn't like.
- I'm slow to learn technology. My husband is the rock star in that department.
- My life is peaceful, easy and not fast-paced. I've designed it that way.
- I see the best in everyone. Always. I see beautiful traits you may not even see in yourself.
- I dated over 100 men to find my perfect husband.
- I've successfully matched several couples who are remarkable, in love, and married.
- I am writing a book to help women find their husbands.